– Customer review on 04/08/2008 Well I was clutching at straws when I purchased this book, trying to understand why my husband and I seem to be getting some basic things wrong, or out of whack. I haven't quite finished the book yet, but already it's like this author has been looking over my shoulder for the past couple of years! It's also funny in some parts and is easy reading for men and women. For me it has confirmed that I am not actually crazy! I do not imagine the things I think are happening, and there are reasons why I feel and react the way I do. I know when my husband reads it (and he will) he will have "lightbulb moments" too - realising what it was I was trying to say, or why I am the way I am. I would highly recommend this book to any couples who are experiencing difficulties, big or small. Even though you may love your partner, sometimes you dont understand them, sometimes you dont understand why some things hurt more than others or why you dont feel close or connected any more. Well, this is a great read and also gives practical tips on what you can do about it. It's not about blame, it's not about making one partner or the other "wrong" - it's about both of you and how you can live and love in harmony - if you could only understand each other better!
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