Table of Contents

An Introduction, Dear Reader

Fresh-Faced and Orgasm Free

The Lady & The Butch

How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love My Tricycle

What’s In a Name? My Big, Wide Cunt

Looking For Blood

(Not) Moving Like A Dyke (Always) Dressing Like A Femme

The Moment at Which  One Has Gone Too Far

The Tale of the Wooden Dicks

An Epilogue, Dear Reader

A Bag of Dicks

And the Warmth  Spread Over Us

About the Author

Kaleigh Trace is a writer and therapist living in Toronto. In a previous life she made sex education her business. Her first book, Hot, Wet, and Shaking: How I Learned to Talk about Sex was published in 2014 and won the Evelyn Richardson Non-Fiction Award. Her work has also appeared in The Coast, Shameless Magazine, and on CBC Radio. Kaleigh has a Masters of Science in Couple’s and Family Therapy and passable punch-needling skills.

Reviews

“Hot, Wet, and Shaking is written in the tone of a trusted and cheeky friend, confessing secrets that shake loose their shame when spoken aloud. This is not the sex advice of a poised, multi-orgasmic, inaccessible, or clinical expert, but rather the honest musings of a woman in a pair of yesterday’s dirty jeans.”—National Post“Hot, Wet and Shaking is… a funny, fast and absorbing read; powerful, empowering, and so important.”—Pickle Me This“This book is a much needed lighthouse that guides us all with love and laughter.”—Broken Pencil“Honesty, self-awareness, a wicked sense of humour, an unflinching sense of the ridiculous. You generally need all of these to be able to talk as candidly about your sex life as Kaleigh Trace has done… she sheds light on sexual stories and scripts we don’t usually get to hear but which are a part of a lot of people’s lives.”—Ready, Sexy, Able“Hot, Wet & Shaking is laugh-out-loud funny in some parts, incredibly touching in others (pun partially intended)… Trace’s book is like a talk with an old friend you can share anything with.”—Sexual Health Lunenburg“Hot, Wet, and Shaking is an important read…This book fights the myths about sex and disability and starts discussions that are long overdue.”—The Dialog“Trace has learned to talk about sex and she has learned to do it extremely well.”—The Coast