A brilliant, genre-defying work-both memoir and epic poem-about the struggle for wisdom, grace, and ritual in the face of unspeakable loss
Adam Mansbach is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Go the F**k to Sleep, the novels Rage Is Back, Angry Black White Boy, and The End of the Jews (winner of the California Book Award), and a dozen other books, most recently the bestselling A Field Guide to the Jewish People, co-written with Dave Barry and Alan Zweibel. Mansbach wrote the award-winning screenplay for the Netflix Original Barry, and his next feature film, Super High, starring Andy Samberg, Craig Robinson, and Common, is forthcoming from New Line. His work has appeared in The New Yorker, The New York Times Book Review, Esquire, The Believer, and The Guardian and on This American Life, The Moth, and All Things Considered.
“You’ve never read a book like this one, with such heart and such
grace. Adam Mansbach unpacks a kind of loss most of us will never
experience, and builds something at once majestic and intimate: a
tribute, a totem, a life.”—Daniel Alarcón, author of The King Is
Always Above the People
“Poetry has always been the perfect vehicle for the unwieldy,
intractable narrative—the pulsing injustice that refuses to dim,
the love that swells unchecked, the numbing tragedy that bleeds
past its borders. In I Had a Brother Once—Adam Mansbach’s
penetrative chronicle of his younger brother’s suicide—there is an
almost unbearable tension between an unrelenting poetic structure
that just barely the contains the unthinkable and the exhaustive
emotional range of the poem itself. I remember Adam around the time
of his brother’s death—if there’s a top of the world, he was on top
of that—and it’s sobering to now realize the grief he was
shouldering, how vehemently that perfect world had shifted. I Had a
Brother Once humbly touts itself as ‘A Poem,’ but it is so, so much
more than that. It is a love story, an unbridled wail, an effectual
and resounding clash of heartache and art.”—Patricia Smith, author
of the Pulitzer Prize finalist Incendiary Art
“This is a devastating, brilliant book. Somehow, in its
completely authentic pain, it manages also to be full of life,
at times even sweetly funny, maybe because we see struggles we
recognize: of distance, of authenticity, of parenting, of
performance, of love. This book feels deeply necessary, not
just for the writer, but for all of us.”—Matthew
Zapruder, author of Why Poetry and Father’s Day
“I Had a Brother Once is a brave, heartrending, and compelling
book. It is consoling with no false notes, rich in both texture and
feeling. Adam Mansbach has written a remarkable memoir.”—Rabih
Alameddine, artist and author of An Unnecessary
Woman and The Angel of History
“A piercing poetic meditation on death, grief, and family . . . A
wounded though loving paean that will speak to anyone who has lost
a sibling, no matter the cause of death.”—Kirkus Reviews
“In this heartbreaking, brutally candid memoir, Mansbach
employs long stanzas of free verse to recount events surrounding
his brother's death, struggling through anger, sorrow, and
confusion. Poetic conventions allow him to retreat into form, to
distill the endless refrains of condolence in a way that re-creates
the time grief occupies in tragedy’s immediate aftermath. . . . For
an author who has written everything from screenplays to
middle-grade novels to wildly popular picture books, this
courageous and devastating memoir in verse stands out.”—Booklist
(starred review)
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