About the Author

Schuyler Bailar is a top social media LGBTQ+ educator and advocate, and a leading DEI speaker and advisor with clients that include Capital One, Microsoft, and hundreds of other organisations, colleges, and schools. He is the first transgender athlete to compete on Harvard University's winningest Swim team at NCAA level. His difficult choice - to transition while potentially giving up the prospect of being a national champion - was historic. His advocacy earned him LGBTQ Nation's Instagram Advocate for 2020 and he has nearly 400k social media followers.

Reviews

'Deeply informative and beautifully written'
*Elliot Page*

Trans and gender-fluid teens will see themselves in Bailar's meaningful work, and cis
teens will find essential information on being a good ally
*Booklist (Starred Review)*

This book is informative, fabulous to read, and leaves the reader with information, joy and proactive ways to get involved in what is one of the most important human rights conversations of our time. I love this book!
*Jonathan Van Ness*

This book is so necessary ... I know I speak for trans people everywhere when I say, no one is better suited to this than Schuyler. He is the master of accessible, inclusive and entertaining explainers
*Freddy McConnell, author and journalist*

He/She/They is a beautiful, embracing, and compassionate book for those wanting to explore their own, or another's gender identity
*Jamie Windust, Author & Broadcaster, Contributing Editor at Gay Times*

Through this heart-holding educational memoir, Schuyler Bailar swims through a sea of hate and misinformation - preaching love and learning. Schuyler's words seek to challenge power and connect to those who really need it. And that's what we need right fucking now
*Radam Ridwan (@radamridwan), trans non-binary content creator, author of 'The Lockdown Lookbook'*

Courageous and heartwarming, He/She/They sheds light on the journey of gender discovery and acceptance. A must-read for anyone seeking understanding, compassion, and hope on the path to self-discovery
*Jazz Jennings, [she/her], activist, television personality, and author*