Daryl Van Tongeren, PhD, is an associate professor of
psychology at Hope College and associate editor of the Journal of
Positive Psychology.
His research has been covered by The New York Times, The Washington
Post, and Chicago Tribune, among other media outlets. He lives
in
Holland, Michigan
"A University of California Favorite Book of 2022
"Van Tongeren’s book dispels many myths about what humility is,
including how it is different from modesty and can actually go hand
in hand with confidence. . . . Ultimately, humility is a skill that
can not only help us as individuals in our close relationships but
also as a society confronting the pressing issues of our time."
*Greater Good*
"In a world filled with overconfidence, there’s no virtue more
underrated than humility. In this lucid, thoughtful book, a leading
expert makes a persuasive case for being honest about your
weaknesses—and shows how that can be a source of strength."
*Adam Grant, #1 New York Times–bestselling author of Think Again
and host of the podcast WorkLife*
"A new book on the quiet power of restraint."
*Associated Press*
"It used to be that humility was one of the most underestimated of
the virtues. Not anymore. Following the latest science, Daryl Van
Tongeren shines light on this ancient, old-fashioned virtue in a
brand-new way. Unpacking the many meanings, layers and levels of
humility, he clearly and compellingly demonstrates why it is so
necessary in today’s world. Humility appears to be so small, so
modest, so unassuming, so humble. But we should not be deceived by
its appearance."
*Robert Emmons, editor-in-chief of The Journal of Positive
Psychology and author of The Little Book of Gratitude*
"Daryl Van Tongeren has written an important book that can provide
a much-needed antidote to the narcissism and the crisis of meaning
that pervades our society."
*Tal Ben-Shahar, PhD,New York Times–bestselling author of Happier
and Happier, No Matter What*
"Narcissism and self-promotion have seduced millions into wasting
their lives, pretending to be someone they’re not. But Dr. Van
Tongeren shows us a way out: the ancient virtue of humility. If
you’re tired of the superficiality of modern life, Humble has the
antidote. It’s a road map for getting our feet back on the
ground."
*Daniel Z. Lieberman, MD, coauthor of The Molecule of More*
"It’s a delightfully ironic fact of science: when you understand
the power of humility, you discover a more self-confident way to
engage with the world. A superior self through selflessness—who
knew?"
*Michael E. Long, coauthor of The Molecule of More*
"We live in a world where big egos stand out and seemingly get
rewarded. In his fantastic new book, Dr. Van Tongeren makes a
compelling case for humility as a virtue: It is not about avoiding
life, but about confronting ourselves, our relationships, and our
world with openness and willingness to accept that we do not hold
all the answers. Humble can inspire growth and make for a truly
rich life."
*W. Keith Campbell, PhD, author of The New Science of
Narcissism*
"An enlightening book on a neglected virtue. Backed by scientific
research and leavened with helpful anecdotes, Van Tongeren makes a
convincing case that humility can improve how we see (and treat)
ourselves, others, and the world around us."
*Michael McCullough, professor of psychology, University of
California, San Diego, and author of The Kindness of Strangers*
"In this increasingly self-absorbed era riddled with selfies and
vanity, humility is harder than ever to find. Social psychologist
Van Tongeren (Hope Coll.) draws from years of graduate and
post-graduate research to define what it means to be humble and how
this endangered virtue could bring connection and understanding in
a divided and narcissistic world. . . . Readers looking to better
understand interpersonal relationships will learn much."
*Library Journal*
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