Lily Dunn is a writer, teacher and lecturer in creative writing and narrative nonfiction at Bath Spa University. She is the author of one novel, SHADOWING THE SUN, and co-editor with Zoe Gilbert of A WILD AND PRECIOUS LIFE, an anthology of recovery stories.
Sins of My Father is Dunn's attempt to know her father, constantly
on the move, impossible to rely on . . . she puts it together as if
she is a detective working a long-forgotten cold case, and though
its setting is very different, it reminded me of Laura Cummings'
gripping memoir, On Chapel Sands . . . there is beauty in its
crisp, cold clarity . . . as vivid an account of addiction as I can
remember reading. Sins of My Father is a testament to the damage
done, but it reads, in the end, like the slow discovery of
freedom
*GUARDIAN*
This is a memoir of two lives: Dunn's father, who took
enthusiastically to the Rajneesh cult and Dunn, whose life is
overshadowed by this early abandonment. She writes with cold,
controlled anger but also empathy. It's a gripping tale
*THE TIMES*
An extraordinary story . . . brilliantly captures the painful truth
of impossible love. Sins of My Father is both page-turning and
lyrical, an inspiration . . . one of the best memoirs I've read in
a long time
*CLOVER STROUD, author of MY WILD AND SLEEPLESS NIGHTS*
Considerable courage is needed to return to the stark, bright light
of trauma in this shirking-nothing way; but writing of this
intensity has delivered an astonishing and valuable memoir
*THE SPECTATOR*
I was obsessed with Sins of My Father, a memoir which combines the
emotional and the cerebral in telling the story of a life through
the prism of a father's influence. The stories of the children of
hippies, or parents who chose experimental lifestyles, is
fascinating and fertile territory and although this story is Lily's
own, she also speaks for a cohort. It is a victory of
self-knowledge and compassion, as well as art
*AMY LIPTROT, author of THE OUTRUN*
A brutally honest consideration of toxic familial love and human
frailty
*i NEWSPAPER*
Stunning. Beautifully crafted and brutally honest, Sins of My
Father is a totally mesmerising journey through the outer limits of
love
*DAVID WHITEHOUSE, author of ABOUT A SON*
Superb . . . Sins of My Father is a terrific read, beautifully
written and expertly structured. The book pulls off the difficult
trick of laying bare just how morally bankrupt Lily's father was,
while making the reader understand why she didn't give up on him
until the very end
*DAILY MAIL, Book of the Week*
Forensic in its compassion and precise in its love: an
extraordinary account of an extraordinary life that produces great
empathy for the universals of human frailty
*JENN ASHWORTH, author of GHOSTED*
In Sins of My Father Lily Dunn has created an almost forensic
analysis of the curse of the Charismatic Dad - on himself, his
family and specifically here on his little daughter, who grows up
under the desperate double shadow cast by addiction and devoted
love, and finally in this memoir does all the painstaking,
heartbreaking, ultimately fulfilling work that her father couldn't
do
*LOUISA YOUNG, author of YOU LEFT EARLY*
An intensely gripping memoir about the love between a daughter and
a father. There's no end to the ways this father tests his loved
ones, yet still his family keeps on trying and hoping for the best.
A heart-stoppingly brilliant read that is as brutal and funny as it
is raw and candid. I really wanted the craziness to stop - but I
never wanted this book to end
*VIV GROSKOP, author of I LAUGHED, I CRIED*
In this compelling memoir, Lily Dunn confronts the legacies of
trauma and dysfunction that surround her complicated father. She
writes with searing honesty and clarity, exploring what it means to
step away from the shadow of our family and find our own voice
*LULAH ELLENDER, author of ELISABETH'S LISTS*
Sins of My Father is a moving story about a golden, gifted family
and their paradise lost. About a daughter escaping the dense
gravitational pull of a charismatic father through the act of
writing. By turns tender and forensic, loving then fierce, this
book will speak to anyone who has had to love and let go
*TANYA SHADRICK, author of THE CURE FOR SLEEP*
Sins of My Father is a powerful, necessary, brilliantly brave book.
It is superlative; it hums and flies and sings. It is moving and
true
*MARINA BENJAMIN, author of INSOMNIA*
Lily Dunn manages the magic trick of rendering pain exquisite, and
making beautiful the vacillation between heart and head, love and
reason that characterises human relationships. The heady honesty of
this book will reverberate in me for a long time
*ZOE GILBERT, author of MISCHIEF ACTS*
Sins of My Father is a devastating work of love, pain and hope.
Lily Dunn has created art and insight from chaos, joy and
suffering
*SOFKA ZINOVIEFF, author of PUTNEY*
In Sins of My Father Lily Dunn deftly explores the complexity of
her father's choices; it's a startling book that will resonate with
anyone who has loved a difficult parent and spent a lifetime trying
to work them out
*ALI MILLAR, author of THE LAST DAYS*
Unputdownable. A love story. A horror story. The unmasking of an
unfortunately still much-beloved guru. A soul-searching that can
teach us much about how to analyse and escape from a cruel
narcissist. It is horrifying and real and brilliantly written
*JANJA LALICH, author of ESCAPING UTOPIA*
With keen insight Dunn tells her story, of a sensitive child who
adores her dashing, abandoning father, who grows up, as so many
adult children of narcissists do, starving for the kind of parental
love and recognition a narcissist is always too self-absorbed to
bestow . . . her story of healing and struggling to build a good,
strong, healthy life is moving and inspiring
*DANIEL SHAW, author of TRAUMATIC NARCISSISM*
A notable addition to the canon of work on cults . . . At its most
tender and difficult, Sins of My Father is really about the near
intractable impossibility of moving beyond childhood trauma to
transform a damaging legacy into something positive - and this is
exactly what Dunn achieves with this remarkable book
*CAUGHT BY THE RIVER*
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