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'Til Death or Distance Do Us Part

Love and Marriage in African America

By Frances Smith Foster

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Format: Paperback, 220 pages
Published In: United States, 02 October 2014
Conventional wisdom tells us that marriage was illegal for African Americans during the antebellum era, and that if people married at all, their vows were tenuous ones: "until death or distance do us part." It is an impression that imbues beliefs about black families to this day. But it's a perception primarily based on documents produced by abolitionists, the state, or other partisans. It doesn't tell the whole story. Drawing on a trove of less well-known sources including family histories, folk stories, memoirs, sermons, and especially the fascinating writings from the Afro-Protestant Press,'Til Death or Distance Do Us Part offers a radically different perspective on antebellum love and family life. Frances Smith Foster applies the knowledge she's developed over a lifetime of reading and thinking. Advocating both the potency of skepticism and the importance of story-telling, her book shows the way toward a more genuine, more affirmative understanding of African American romance, both then and now.

Table of Contents

One: Adam and Eve, Antony and Isabella ; Two: Terms of Endearment ; Three: Practical Thoughts, Divine Mandates, and the Afro-Protestant Press ; Four: Rights and Rituals ; Five: Myths, Memory, and Self-Realization ; Six: Getting Stories Straight, Keeping Them Real ; Seven: Alchemy of Personal Politics ; Eight: Me, Mende, and Sankofa: An Epilogue

About the Author

Frances Smith Foster is Charles Howard Candler Professor of English and Women's Studies (Emeritus) at Emory University. Her previous books include Written By Herself: Literary Production by African American Women, 1746-1892 (Indiana UP, 1993), Witnessing Slavery: The Development of the Ante-Bellum Slave Narrative (Greenwood, 1979), and several edited collections. Her VSI to African American Literature is forthcoming.


This is a challenging and important text. After deconstructing our national myths about marriage and our specific assumptions about African American marriage, Foster masterfully reconstructs the reality of marriage for enslaved black people. Rather than finding a fragile institution of transient attachments, she uncovers a legacy of love, struggle, and commitment. By choosing whom to love, how to love, and what to sacrifice, black Americans carved out space for their human selves. Their marriages contributed to decades of resistance against the dehumanizing effects of slavery. Although there is not a hint of sentimentalism, this book is truly an inspiring love story. * Melissa Harris-Lacewell, author of Barbershops, Bibles, and BET: Everyday Talk and Black Political Thought *

EAN: 9780199389704
ISBN: 0199389705
Publisher: Oxford University Press, USA
Dimensions: 21.34 x 13.97 x 1.78 centimetres (0.27 kg)
Age Range: 15+ years
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