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Unbearable Lightness

A Story of Loss and Gain

By Portia De Rossi

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Format: Hardcover, 308 pages
Published In: United States, 01 November 2010
"I didn't decide to become anorexic. It snuck up on me disguised as a healthy diet, a professional attitude. Being as thin as possible was a way to make the job of being an actress easier . . ." Portia de Rossi weighed only 82 pounds when she collapsed on the set of the Hollywood film in which she was playing her first leading role. This should have been the culmination of all her years of hard work--first as a child model in Australia, then as a cast member of one of the hottest shows on American television. On the outside she was thin and blond, glamorous and successful. On the inside, she was literally dying. In this searing, unflinchingly honest book, Portia de Rossi captures the complex emotional truth of what it is like when food, weight, and body image take priority over every other human impulse or action. She recounts the elaborate rituals around eating that came to dominate hours of every day, from keeping her daily calorie intake below 300 to eating precisely measured amounts of food out of specific bowls and only with certain utensils. When this wasn't enough, she resorted to purging and compulsive physical exercise, driving her body and spirit to the breaking point. Even as she rose to fame as a cast member of the hit television shows Ally McBeal and Arrested Development, Portia alternately starved herself and binged, all the while terrified that the truth of her sexuality would be exposed in the tabloids. She reveals the heartache and fear that accompany a life lived in the closet, a sense of isolation that was only magnified by her unrelenting desire to be ever thinner. With the storytelling skills of a great novelist and the eye for detail of a poet, Portia makes transparent as never before the behaviors and emotions of someone living with an eating disorder. From her lowest point, Portia began the painful climb back to a life of health and honesty, falling in love with and eventually marrying Ellen DeGeneres, and emerging as an outspoken and articulate advocate for gay rights and women's health issues. In this remarkable and beautifully written work, Portia shines a bright light on a dark subject. A crucial book for all those who might sometimes feel at war with themselves or their bodies, Unbearable Lightness is a story that inspires hope and nourishes the spirit.


De Rossi, star of such television shows as Ally McBeal and Arrested Development, reads her memoir of life in the spotlight and closet, her struggles to conceal her homosexuality and eating disorder, coping with burgeoning fame, and meeting-and marrying-Ellen DeGeneres. Her voice is girlish, slightly nasal, and clarion; she takes us through her darkest moments with astonishing frankness, allowing shame and vulnerability to creep into her voice. She seems to be confessing rather than merely reading. It's a deeply affecting performance-save for some hammy vocal characterizations. An Atria hardcover. (Nov.) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

"De Rossi's memoir reminds us that fame and celebrity are no substitute for feeling comfortable in one's own skin." --Jodi Picoult "De Rossi tells her story with genuine insight and unflinching honesty. You will cheer her on." --Jeannette Walls """Breathtakingly honest, brutal and beautiful." "--"Jonathan Safran Foer "De Rossi's attention to detail is hypnotic." --"USA Today" "Written with artistry, compelling insight and lucid frankness, ["Unbearable Lightness"] offers solid hope and inducement to initiate the odyssey toward self-knowledge and acceptance." --"The New York Times" "De Rossi artfully draws the reader into the tension of a life lived in secrecy...her story is a cautionary tale, an inspiration, and a triumph." --"Publishers Weekly" "A stark, well-written portrait of how De Rossi lost control of her life as she became consumed by her struggle for perfection and acceptance." --"Washington Post" "The blunt, pity-free matter-of-factness with which de Rossi shares secrets and lies about her eating disorders and her sexuality makes this forthright confessional story at once shocking and instructional, especially for younger women who may be secretly suffering on their own." --"Entertainment Weekly" "An unflinching self-portrait...frank, brave, and revelatory.""--Booklist" "In prose as simply elegant--and as powerful--as a little black dress, De Rossi weaves together three themes--the impact of a loving, but lonely girlhood as the child of a single mother, the corrosive effect of constant doubts about her appearance and the internal struggle over her sexuality." --"Los Angeles Times "(5 star review)

EAN: 9781439177785
ISBN: 1439177783
Publisher: Atria Books
Dimensions: 22.86 x 15.49 x 2.54 centimetres (0.59 kg)
Age Range: 15+ years
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4 review(s)
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Jaime Lee Rohr on
Great read, very honest account of such a terrible illness. Highly recommended.
Letitia Tomkins on
Great read and such wonderful insight into the horrible disease that threathens so many peoples love. I praise De Rossi for writing such a insightful book, and hope that the right people pick it up to bring insight into their lives.
Jemma Maslen on
Such a wonderful book, I didn't want to put it down! A book that you just don't want to end..... A raw journey covering Portia's life with all the highs and extreme low's. A book that will touch you in many different ways. Fantastic!!!!
Cassie Hollebone on
A fantastic recall of the life and hardships of a wonderfully strong woman, I would reccomend to anyone!

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