Thomas Gagliano is a highly motivated and successful entrepreneur
with a proven track record in small business ventures. Gagliano has
also been a high profile leader in addiction and self-help therapy,
developing unique methods and procedures which have helped numerous
institutions and individuals in the greater New York area. His
methods have been embraced by a number of institutions, including
the Counseling Center in Princeton, the Chabad Chai Center in East
Brunswick and St. Ambrose Parish (RC) in Old Bridge. He is a
graduate of Seton Hall University and has a bachelor's degree in
marketing. Today he is back at school, attending Rutgers University
and completing a Masters degree in social work.
Abraham J. Twerski, MD, author of "Addictive Personality" and
numerous other books, has been referred to as "Pittsburgh's most
famous psychiatrist." After serving several years as a pulpit
rabbi, Dr. Twerski entered Marquette University Medical School in
Milwaukee and completed his psychiatric training at the University
of Pittsburgh Medical School. He has served as medical director of
psychiatry at Pittsburgh's St. Francis Hospital, and in 1972
founded the Gateway Rehabilitation Center for treatment of alcohol
and drug addiction. He was the medical director of Gateway for 30
years, and is currently medical director emeritus. He is the author
of numerous books on addiction, self-esteem and spirituality. Dr.
Twerski collaborated with Charles Schulz, creator of the "Peanuts"
cartoon strip, on four books. Dr. Twerski has lectured world-wide
as well as in many cities in the United States.
"...helpful to anyone who wants to break the cycle of
self-defeating thoughts and self-destructive behaviors."
--Counselor magazine "Thomas has been on our program, Joy in Our
Town, twice and has brought some incredible insight into what
creates some of the roles each of us play in our society. He breaks
it down in terms for anyone to understand and, therefore, form
strategies that will help correct and/or improve their lives."
--Evan Eley, Director of Public Affairs, Trinity Broadcasting
Network "This guide will help anyone who is confused about why they
find themselves repeating in their adult relationships the harms
they endured as children. Here is a way out of the maze."
--John Leadem, co-author of Surveying the Wreckage "Thomas Gagliano
has been a guest on my syndicated radio show on numerous occasions.
He is insightful, informative, inspirational and down-to-Earth. He
brings a very personal perspective to universal themes. He relates
his own experiences and life-lessons in a way that they become
surprisingly familiar to anyone who has dealt with similar
issues."
--Richard Stevens, The Richard Stevens Show "Tom Gagliano delivers
an inspiring message of hope to individuals who have felt trapped
in a cycle of self sabotaging behavior. In a voice that is
powerful, yet gentle and compassionate, Tom has the ability to
capture the imagination and engage the spirit of his
listeners!"
--Veronica Faisant, Producer/Host "Every once in a while, a radio
guest comes along with not only pertinent information to share, but
also a heart of gold. Thomas Gagliano was that guest for my show,
Sharkie's PEP Talk on Healthy Life Radio. He is one of the few
people who actually takes responsibility for his life, and teaches
others to do the same. His humility, positive perception,
gratitude, and willingness to learn from life's challenges are
refreshing traits in a world that blames and whines about every
little problem. His amazing book, The Problem Was Me, should be
required reading for everyone."
--Sharkie Zartman "I am a relatively successful owner of an
engineering company in New Jersey. For most of my life, I defined
myself by the success of my firm. When I first employed Tom I was
on the verge of divorce. Tom was able to help me understand the
wounds of my childhood trauma. Without Tom's professional guidance
there would be absolutely no possibility that my marriage could
ever have been salvaged. Quite frankly, Tom helped save my life! I
have now been working with Tom for about 3 years and I am
constantly amazed how much wisdom and insight that he is able to
provide for me. With his guidance, I believe that I have improved
as a person, as well as a partner to my wife."
--Jim "My name is Dr. Alan Zwerdling and I am a licensed
psychologist in the state of New Jersey. I hold a Ph.D. in clinical
psychology from the University of Maine, and have advanced
postdoctoral training from the Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy
Institute of New York and New Jersey. I have been in practice for
over 20 years, specializing in psychotherapy for adults and
couples, and have supervised the work of other masters and doctoral
level therapists. My experience with Tom is that he is that rare,
natural, intuitive, therapeutic personality who, just by having a
conversation, somehow manages to make people feel better. I have
met only a handful of people like this in my life. It does not
appear to be an effort and may not even be an intention. Tom
typically will say something that hits home and makes a difference.
His natural, hard earned wisdom is conveyed in an unpolished
regular guy manner that matches the man with the message and makes
it attractive to the people around him. Tom's recovery model
integrates foundational components of several major models of
psychological treatment: the core beliefs and thinking patterns
(schema) of cognitive behavioral therapy, the childhood wounds,
repetition compulsion, and trauma recreations. The theory makes
sense in a practical way that I believe will be accessible to
anyone looking to lead a happier, more successful life."
--Alan Zwerdling, Ph.D, Licensed Psychologist "Tom's coaching
methods have helped me see things more clearly. To be honest, it
didn't wipe away my resentments immediately but without his
encouragement I would have given up a long time ago. I trust him
with all of the secrets that keep me bound with this devastating
addiction. I have always found it hard to trust people, but I do
trust Tom. He is a very dear friend and confidant that I will
always be grateful to have in my life. I believe his insights and
directions will help many people in all walks of life. If he can
help others the way he helped me his message must be heard."
--Greg H., Lakewood, NJ "Over the past several years Tom Gag1iano
has had a profound impact on the Jewish community, bringing healing
and serenity to people and families that have long given up hope.
He has helped thousands of people and in turn has touched tens of
thousands of lives in a positive way. Tom's approach is unique and
admirable. He is truly a remarkable person. Seeing his caring,
compassion and understanding of another's pain and agony has taught
me a lot over the years. His approach is so successful I have
incorporated some of his methods in my own counseling and clergy
work. My conviction comes from seeing the results over the years.
People who have been going to mental health professionals for years
unsuccessfully, yet by Tom helping them you can see a real shift in
their lives. If I could get all the clergy in the state to hear one
speaker I would have them hear Tom. The things I learned from him
cannot be taught in school or by another individual. He is
unique."
--Rabbi Yossi Hirsch "I am writing to express my great admiration
and respect for Tom Gagliano and his unique ability to help others
through life's challenges. Tom has been my life coach for the past
two years. During this time he has helped me to skillfully handle
the challenges and difficulties I have encountered in my life. I am
always amazed that, after listening to me describe a dilemma or
struggle that perplexes me, Tom's response gets right to the heart
of the matter. In doing so, he often uncovers motivations and
dynamics that are not readily apparent to me. With his keen insight
into the human person, Tom guides me to consider various plans of
action and respects the course I choose. I know others Tom has
assisted; they report similar experiences as mine. Indeed, sensing
his great talent many seek Tom out for his wise counsel and
guidance. He has helped many live better, emotionally healthier and
more meaningful lives. He has guided couples through the challenges
of relationship and has been an effective facilitator of healing
and intimacy. With all his giftedness, Tom is a man of great
humility; there is no arrogance or air of superiority about him. I
highly recommend Tom Gagliano to you. He is an extraordinary man
with a special gift of being able to guide others through life's
challenges."
--Rev. John J. Werner, Priest "I recently went through the
stressful process of moving my family to a new country. I was
overwhelmed with fear and doubt. Tom helped me to see that my fears
were based on the messages I got when I was young. I was also
afraid that my children would not like the new school they
attended. I was going to let my fears block me from moving. After
doing Tom's inventories I started to realize that all of these
fears were stories I was making up in my head and were based on the
one belief that I did not deserve happiness."
--Ben "I truly believe I would not have found the courage to take
the steps needed to leave my job and go out on my own if it wasn't
for Tom's coaching. I also believe his methods, when dealing with
intimacy issues, helped save my marriage. Tom showed me the ways to
trust myself and others again, something I lost a long time
ago."
--Mark "I always found myself in a dead-end position with a boss
who constantly told me I wasn't good enough. The problem was I
believed this message. I employed Tom as a coach and he immediately
asked me where this voice came from. Eventually, I realized it was
the voice of my father. As a coach he helped me identify this and
stop this voice from controlling my behavior. Today I am
self-employed, doing better than I ever dreamed. I didn't realize
the hold my childhood messages had in affecting the decisions I
made in my economic decisions. Today I enjoy what I do and I make
more money than I ever have."
--Michael, Monroe Township, N.J
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