Mark Ettensohn is a clinical psychologist in Sacramento, California. He specializes in treating narcissism and providing psychotherapy for chronic emotional, psychological, and relational distress. Manhattan-based psychiatrist Jane Simon, M.D. is a graduate of Barnard College and Temple Medical School.
"This book helps the reader to see that through compassion,
understanding, empathy, and limit setting, we can take steps to
attain the lives and relationships that we deserve. In working with
clients on any topic it's important to navigate between educating
about the issue, teaching new skills to help resolve the discomfort
of the situation, and reinforcing the client's ability to act and
make successful change. In Unmasking Narcissism, Dr. Ettensohn has
combined all three with a style, grace, and beauty that reflects
his immense talent. Not only is his description of narcissism spot
on, but he is able to provide analogies that represent and enhance
understanding of the diagnosis that are often difficult to put into
words. His compassion toward all parties involved in navigating the
ups and downs of narcissism is a main step in helping everyone
understand and cope with such a difficult situation. Dr. Ettensohn
combines aspects or interventions from multiple theoretical
backgrounds including ACT, CBT, Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction,
Psychodynamic, and Humanistic. This book is a wealth of information
and should be read by everyone who has an interest in or who has a
lived experience with a narcissistic individual. Dr. Ettensohn
reminds us that at our core we are all human and react to fears of
rejection and needs for intimacy in different ways." --Chelsea
Bagias, Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Thought Disorder
Specialist
"Dr. Ettensohn unmasks narcissism, not by villainizing, but by
removing the barrier to understanding. He masterfully and
compassionately fosters the reader's appreciation of factors
contributing to the development and maintenance of narcissism,
which then allows the development of empathy for the narcissist's
experience. Such a shift in perspective helps the reader to find
more flexible and workable ways to relate to a narcissist, whether
that relationship be romantic, platonic or personal. This book is a
valuable addition to any library."--Robin Kirk, LMFT, Owner and
Director, Sage Anxiety Treatment Program
"I love this book. Dr. Ettensohn has masterfully translated his
extensive knowledge and expertise into a compelling, easy-to-read
guidebook for non-professionals. He exposes the often-misconceived
underbelly of the narcissist, promoting a deeper understanding of
both the person and the relationship at hand. He provides
illuminating scenarios and helpful tips, allowing for more
constructive possibility both within the relationship and within
the reader's self. Unmasking Narcissism is a must read for anyone
struggling to navigate this provocative and daunting relational
experience."--Nancy Kernick, Psy.D., Licensed Clinical
Psychologist
"Unlike most academic texts and self-help literature, this book
does not label narcissistic individuals as evil, broken, or bad,
and does not recommend triumphantly exposing them or diligently
providing constant soothing and reassurance to protect their
frailty. Also, Dr. Ettensohn does not depict individuals in
relationships with narcissists as powerless victims or as needy
collaborators. Rather, demonstrating the mindful, non-judgmental
acceptance that he continually advocates, he describes narcissism
as a developmental behavioral pattern, detailing its etiology, its
trajectory, and its prognosis. Using a clear yet vivid narrative,
Dr. Ettensohn seamlessly introduces, explains, and interweaves core
concepts in psychological wellness and effectiveness: attachment,
assertiveness, emotional regulation, and boundaries. Of particular
note, he discusses the under looked aspect of vulnerable
narcissism, which is common in psychiatric settings but difficult
to recognize and treat. And most importantly, he firmly
acknowledges the lack of control that we have over other people's
behaviors, and emphasizes the importance of clearly communicating,
setting, and maintaining our own boundaries, and making conscious
and responsive decisions that reflect our own values." --Kilianne
Kimball, Ph.D. Licensed Clinical Psychologist
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