Table of Contents

Introduction
Part One: Confederate Marriages
The Marriage of Varina Howell and Jefferson Davis
The Lee Marriage
"Stonewall" and Mary Anna Jackson and the Civil War
The Marriage of LaSalle Corbell and George E. Pickett
Lizinka Campbell Brown and Richard S. Ewell
The Marriage of Amelia Gayle and Josiah Gorgas
Part Two: Union Marriages
Ulysses and Julia Grant
General and Mrs. William T. Sherman, a Contentious Marriage
The Reconstruction of a "Home"
The Civil War Marriage of Lawrence and Fannie Chamberlain
The Civil War Partnership of Elizabeth and George A. Custer
Permutations of a Marriage: John Charles and Jessie Benton Fremon's Civil War Alliance
"A Good Wife and the Best Friend in the World": the Marriage of Elizabeth Blair and S. Phillips Lee
Notes
Authors' biographies

About the Author

Carol K. Bleser is Kathryn and Calhoun Lemon Distinguished Professor of History Emerita at Clemson University and former president of the Southern Historical Association and the Southern Association of Women Historians. Her books include The Hammonds of Redcliffe, Tokens of Affection, Secret and Sacred, and In Joy and In Sorrow.

Lesley J. Gordon is Associate Professor of History at the University of Akron, and is the author of General George E. Pickett in Life and Legend.

Reviews

"From homefront to battlefront, from the first couple of the Confederacy to the marriages of Grant and Sherman, Intimate Strategies takes us behind the frontlines and into commanders' tents, where other battles were fought--conflicts within conflicts, ebbing and flowing during the course of the Civil War."--Catherine Clinton, author of Harriet Tubman: The Road to Freedom
"Civil War scholarship too often has separated the home front and the battlefield, examining each in isolation and obscuring the myriad connections between the two. This collection of essays joins a growing body of literature that refreshingly counters that trend, exploring the lives of a dozen prominent couples and underscoring the fact that, even amid momentous military and political events, relationships with spouses and families often held center stage.
Readers interested in Civil War military history, the importance of gender as an analytical tool, and the ways in which personal relationships influenced postwar writings about the conflict will read
this book with profit--as will anyone drawn to the often compelling stories of Robert and Mary Lee, Ulysses and Julia Grant, Fannie and Joshua Chamberlain, and the other famous couples."--Gary W. Gallagher, author of The Confederate War and Lee and His Army in Confederate History
"Intimate Strategies delivers fresh, readable material to both Civil War specialists and general readers. Original in conception and successful in execution, these twelve essays on the marriages of Union and Confederate commanders and their wives probe a neglected interaction between private affairs and public matters. Through their fascinating, sometimes surprising profiles of these marriages of well-known commanders including those of Lee, Grant,
Jackson, and Sherman, the authors break down the artificial divide between battlefield and marriage bed. Intimate Strategies doesnt just personalize the larger themes of military and gender history; it also
displays the significance of marriage as an historical topic."--Jean Baker, author of Mary Todd Lincoln: A Biography
"The dozen essays in these pages collectively give us both a view of a too-much neglected side of Civil War America and offer insights into the lives of some of the period's prominent men and of the fascinating women who shared life with them. The editors and their colleagues have put together a fine work that will do much to aid our understanding of the era and its people."--Richard M. McMurry, author of Atlanta 1864: Last Chance for the Confederacy
"This edited collection will surely silence anyone foolish enough to think that the curtain should be brought down on Civil War historiography. Intimate Strategies moves into relatively uncharted territory and undertakes the systematic exploration of private lives and military performance. The contributing authors demonstrate that marriage, long regarded by some as a private blood sport, also affected the panoramic public bloodletting of the Blue and
the Gray."--Margaret Ripley Wolfe, author of Daughters of Canaan: A Saga of Southern Women
"Considering the current state of affairs, with thousands of American soldiers overseas fighting terrorism, this volume could not have come out at a better time. Families in our armed services today, who are learning the uncertainties and anxieties of having loved ones in harm's way thousands of miles from home, may find comfort and instruction from these Civil War predecessors."--Civil War Times

"From homefront to battlefront, from the first couple of the Confederacy to the marriages of Grant and Sherman, Intimate Strategies takes us behind the frontlines and into commanders' tents, where other battles were fought--conflicts within conflicts, ebbing and flowing during the course of the Civil War."--Catherine Clinton, author of Harriet Tubman: The Road to Freedom "Civil War scholarship too often has separated the home front and the battlefield, examining each in isolation and obscuring the myriad connections between the two. This collection of essays joins a growing body of literature that refreshingly counters that trend, exploring the lives of a dozen prominent couples and underscoring the fact that, even amid momentous military and political events, relationships with spouses and families often held center stage. Readers interested in Civil War military history, the importance of gender as an analytical tool, and the ways in which personal relationships influenced postwar writings about the conflict will read this book with profit--as will anyone drawn to the often compelling stories of Robert and Mary Lee, Ulysses and Julia Grant, Fannie and Joshua Chamberlain, and the other famous couples."--Gary W. Gallagher, author of The Confederate War and Lee and His Army in Confederate History "Intimate Strategies delivers fresh, readable material to both Civil War specialists and general readers. Original in conception and successful in execution, these twelve essays on the marriages of Union and Confederate commanders and their wives probe a neglected interaction between private affairs and public matters. Through their fascinating, sometimes surprising profiles of these marriages of well-known commanders including those of Lee, Grant, Jackson, and Sherman, the authors break down the artificial divide between battlefield and marriage bed. Intimate Strategies doesnt just personalize the larger themes of military and gender history; it also displays the significance of marriage as an historical topic."--Jean Baker, author of Mary Todd Lincoln: A Biography "The dozen essays in these pages collectively give us both a view of a too-much neglected side of Civil War America and offer insights into the lives of some of the period's prominent men and of the fascinating women who shared life with them. The editors and their colleagues have put together a fine work that will do much to aid our understanding of the era and its people."--Richard M. McMurry, author of Atlanta 1864: Last Chance for the Confederacy "This edited collection will surely silence anyone foolish enough to think that the curtain should be brought down on Civil War historiography. Intimate Strategies moves into relatively uncharted territory and undertakes the systematic exploration of private lives and military performance. The contributing authors demonstrate that marriage, long regarded by some as a private blood sport, also affected the panoramic public bloodletting of the Blue and the Gray."--Margaret Ripley Wolfe, author of Daughters of Canaan: A Saga of Southern Women "Considering the current state of affairs, with thousands of American soldiers overseas fighting terrorism, this volume could not have come out at a better time. Families in our armed services today, who are learning the uncertainties and anxieties of having loved ones in harm's way thousands of miles from home, may find comfort and instruction from these Civil War predecessors."--Civil War Times

Readers are not as likely to recognize the names of Varina Howell Davis and Julia Dent Grant as those of their husbands, Jefferson and Ulysses, but these wives of Civil War leaders also contributed to the war's outcome and to their husbands' careers. Long neglected in traditional military treatments of the conflict, the family life and very different wives of 12 of the Union's and Confederate's most significant leaders are the topic of this fascinating collection of essays. Editors Bleser (emerita, history, Clemson; In Joy and Sorrow: Women, Family, and Marriage in the Victorian South) and Gordon (history, Univ. of Akron; General George E. Pickett) are well qualified to compile and contribute to such a volume. Other respected historians, editors, and biographers provide well-written, thoroughly documented essays to this first volume to provide such an extensive examination of the Civil War commanders' wives. Highly recommended for any academic or public library. Theresa McDevitt, Indiana Univ. of Pennsylvania Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information.